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Manners - Do They Really Matter? #SocialCafe 7.19
Welcome to the #SocialCafe Chat at our weekly Tues 6pm PDT / 9p EDT slot
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Our topic for this #SocialCafe : Manners - Do They Really Matter? 7.19 #chattingNow
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Chat questions (and more) for this #SocialCafe here: sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Start getting those #ShamelessPlug (created by Deborah 7 yrs ago) tweets ready > We will tweet them later in #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Last week: Wrap-Up for Successful Collaborations 7.18 sw.bcafe.co/kx #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Tonight: Manners - Do They Really Matter? 7.19 #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q1 How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Joing #SocialCafe tonight to talk manners - because they do matter! twitter.com/socialwebcafe/…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q1 (rephrase) Let's define “Manners” #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A1 Being kind to others. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Hey Kathryn - How are you? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A1 Manners may be a part of a personality or a way of approaching life (behavioral) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Hey Deborah - doing well. AMAZING weather today AND I got to drive the tractor! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A1: Manners are about helping others feel comfortable in the situation you are sharingm and about showing respect to the poeple you encounter. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Anyone interested in joining the #SocialCafe team as a co-host some day? We are taking apps for weekly co-hosts... (once per month or once per two months)
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang Oh wow! That sounds fun! Was it? Or, at least educational, eh? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A1: Manners are about helping others feel comfortable in the situation you are sharingm and about showing respect to the…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang I love that description! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe I enjoy driving the tractor when nobody is JUDGING me driving the tractor :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q2 Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Hey #SocialCafe Con will not be able to join us this evening. But, he is with us in our hearts. Enjoy your vacation, Con, and see you soon.
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q2: Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/oKEVhweg3w
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q2 (rephrase) How necessary are manners for personal life? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A2 I think so, if you want to be pleasant. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Need the #SocialCafe questions? Visit: sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A2: Manners make you tolerable (and even attractive) to others - which is invaluable when it comes to growing relationships, a business, or just getting through life! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A2 I think manners help to smooth out the bumps in life. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@AbigailRushmore And if you want others to be willing to put up with you :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang I can see how that matters (not being judged).. I can see where a lot of things could be fun in that scenario :). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A2: Manners make you tolerable (and even attractive) to others - which is invaluable when it comes to growing relationshi…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Again, Kathryn hits it out of the ballpark ;) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Good point! #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
RT @Kathrynclang: @AbigailRushmore And if you want others to be willing to put up with you :D #SocialCafe
Let's be honest - having manners just makes good business sense. We had a local company caught on video throwing a refund on the ground in front of a patron and her kids . . . NOT COOL! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q3 Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Caught on video? No, that is not cool! Time to go home and not interact with clients! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A3: Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/5cYOWFd5G0
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q3 Yes. For the same reason as personal. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q3 (rephrase) How necessary are manners for business life? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A3 In the same way as personal, manners help to smooth out the bumps in business communication. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialcafechat A3: I think your business can have personality without giving up manners. And if you want to keep customers returning you need them to like you (at least a little) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@socialwebcafe Yep - just tossing the money at her feet. It was that action that had viewers the most upset #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Your story reminded me of having a rude waitress one time and how I dealt with it was to write a blog post when I got home. socialwebcafe.com/editorial/i-ca… #SocialCafe (so extreme, I c/n believe it)
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang I understand a "bad day" but I have a hard time finding excuses for that behavior as a business owner, especially if it is repetitive #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Just don't announce "this would make a great article" even just to your husband (or you get thrown out of the funeral home) :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q4 Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe
RT @Kathrynclang: @socialcafechat A3: I think your business can have personality without giving up manners. And if you want to keep custome…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe That was what most comments shared. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q4 (rephrase) Do we care about manners? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q4 I think we should understand manners. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q4: Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/ictPAZ9dhE
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Just joining us? Review the #SocialCafe chat questions @ sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A4 Without manners, there is a proven chance of conflict. Manners helps to circumvent that in some cases. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Hadn't thought about it like that. Good point about the power of manners! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
@Kathrynclang Free to give, priceless to receive.
#SocialCafe
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
YES! Love this! Manners are so simple and yet so powerful! #socialCafe twitter.com/Geekonomicon/s…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Geekonomicon: @Kathrynclang Free to give, priceless to receive.
#SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @socialwebcafe: Online Tools for Successful Collaborations w/@SanaKnightly of @vcbuzz & @MyBlogU sw.bcafe.co/id #SocialCafe via…
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
@Geekonomicon @Kathrynclang Love it. Your tweet had to sink in for a second and then WOW - yes! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q5 How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A5 I think one should know how to use it in today's internet world. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q5 (rephrase) Are manners and effective communication related? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q5: How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/RlBvZ7aJkA
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A5 At least with manners, there is an effort at the effective communication and others are likely to notice that effort and be more receptive. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A5: Manners are about focusing on others and helping others feel comfortable - and that will help create an atmosphere for effective communication. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: A5: Manners are about focusing on others and helping others feel comfortable - and that will help create an atmosphere fo…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe Mine shows up in the morning - but that's probably because the rest of the house is asleep :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Great point, Kathryn! "Focusing on others.. helping them feel comfortable" >> I wonder if that comes easier for certain personalities (Actually, that is what is tested with the Big 5 Psych tests :) ) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe I've become quite adept at reading autocorrect (and autocurrupt) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q6 Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q6: Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/y551ZGLyvA
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A6 Both. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q6 (rephrase) What causes bad (or nonexistent) manners? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon You are so talented, Kathryn! ;). #SocialCafe #withAllSincerity
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A6: It can be both or either . . . the problem today is that basic manners is not taught (so many don't know even what should be done). #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A6 I think it is both. Some people do not have manners. Some do not care. Some do not pay attention to whether they do or do not. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Nast week: Manners: The Attitude that Launches Your Success 7.20 sw.bcafe.co/kz #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@socialcafechat I LOVE talking attitudes :D #SocialCafe #snarkyrainbows
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@socialwebcafe @Geekonomicon If you saw my handwriting you'd understand why I've had to develop this particular talent ;) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang You know... My hubby and I were accidentally talking about this, in comparing behaviors.. Both of us were "deacons' kids" and "had to behave." That provided the teaching #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon You seriously crack me up, Kathryn ;) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang @socialcafechat Yes! re: talking about attitudes #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe @Geekonomicon We've made it a game around our house: "Does anyone know what mom was trying to write?" #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon Oh, that is too funny! Tho I love the way kids can make games out of things.. Mine have a few for me, too :). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q7 Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q7: Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/6GmBsx2iuL
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Maybe a better way to put Q7 is ... How can we improve our "manners skill set?" #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A7 Discussing it helps. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q7 (rephrase) What is there to know about manners? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A7: I'm from the South - there's not such thing as "too much manners." Bless your heart! :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe We wouldn't ever be able to tell if we were trying to read it . . . or maybe you could read mine and I could read yours - isn't that how twins work? #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A7 One could practice good manners and assess the results. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q2: Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/oKEVhweg3w
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: A3: Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/5cYOWFd5G0
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q4: Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/ictPAZ9dhE
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A7: You can learn more about manners and the power of manners by reading some of the etiquette books from the past. I have "Amy Vanderbilt's Everyday Etiquette) book on my shelf #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q5: How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe http…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q6: Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialC…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q7: Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q8 Is there anything that you would like to consider, in improving your success rate with a few tweaks in manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A7: You can learn more about manners and the power of manners by reading some of the etiquette books from the past. I hav…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q8: Is there anything that you would like to consider, in improving your success rate with a few tweaks in manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/7zxUxprqm9
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A8 Being more cognitive of it. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q8 (rephrase) What can we do to improve manners this week? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang Very helpful resource! Funny, I was thinking about etiquette books but didn't think to tweet it :). Thank you! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A8: I would like to get back in the habit of sending notes (thank you and thinking of you and nice to meet you) in the mail #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Ah, I love that.. the manners of the South... #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A8 One suggestion is to use templates for email communications if manners are a hard thing to remember. That way, you don't have to think about it as much, but you are doing it. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Mine was within reach :) I'm going to have to read back through it - could make for some interesting posts down the road. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Before the internet I did that ALL the time, with a desk just for the occasion... something I miss, with the internet #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe I still have stacks of stationary (some mine, some my mom's, and some even my grandmother's) #SocialCafe It needs to go to new homes ;)
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Oh, me too! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Yes, I miss the days of real Thank You cards ;). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Thank u for joining us for our 30 min #SocialCafe Chat. Feel free to keep chatting, just wanted to let you know we appreciate u!
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Collaborating and connecting with #SocialCafe #shamelessplug - Would you like to turn your course outline, class notes, presentation, or content into an eBook or book? I can help KathrynLang.com/write-your-book
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang And, she is really good at it! Visit her site and see for yourself! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: Collaborating and connecting with #SocialCafe #shamelessplug - Would you like to turn your course outline, class notes, p…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe It's always a great time connecting and sharing on #SocialCafe. I am so blessed to have found this Twitter Chat!
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
GREAT quote! We were just talking manners on #SocialCafe and to me this falls right into place with the idea. Think of others . . . it makes a difference in your journey as well! twitter.com/Susanjmccann/s…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Yes! @Kathrynclang And, thanks, @Susanjmccann for tweeting the quote ("help more people"). #SocialCafe twitter.com/Kathrynclang/s…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Manners - Do They Really Matter? #SocialCafe 7.19
Welcome to the #SocialCafe Chat at our weekly Tues 6pm PDT / 9p EDT slot
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Our topic for this #SocialCafe : Manners - Do They Really Matter? 7.19 #chattingNow
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Chat questions (and more) for this #SocialCafe here: sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Start getting those #ShamelessPlug (created by Deborah 7 yrs ago) tweets ready > We will tweet them later in #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Last week: Wrap-Up for Successful Collaborations 7.18 sw.bcafe.co/kx #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Tonight: Manners - Do They Really Matter? 7.19 #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q1 How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Joing #SocialCafe tonight to talk manners - because they do matter! twitter.com/socialwebcafe/…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q1 (rephrase) Let's define “Manners” #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A1 Being kind to others. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Hey Kathryn - How are you? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A1 Manners may be a part of a personality or a way of approaching life (behavioral) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Hey Deborah - doing well. AMAZING weather today AND I got to drive the tractor! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A1: Manners are about helping others feel comfortable in the situation you are sharingm and about showing respect to the poeple you encounter. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Anyone interested in joining the #SocialCafe team as a co-host some day? We are taking apps for weekly co-hosts... (once per month or once per two months)
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang Oh wow! That sounds fun! Was it? Or, at least educational, eh? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A1: Manners are about helping others feel comfortable in the situation you are sharingm and about showing respect to the…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang I love that description! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe I enjoy driving the tractor when nobody is JUDGING me driving the tractor :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q2 Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Hey #SocialCafe Con will not be able to join us this evening. But, he is with us in our hearts. Enjoy your vacation, Con, and see you soon.
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q2: Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/oKEVhweg3w
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q2 (rephrase) How necessary are manners for personal life? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A2 I think so, if you want to be pleasant. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Need the #SocialCafe questions? Visit: sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A2: Manners make you tolerable (and even attractive) to others - which is invaluable when it comes to growing relationships, a business, or just getting through life! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A2 I think manners help to smooth out the bumps in life. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@AbigailRushmore And if you want others to be willing to put up with you :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang I can see how that matters (not being judged).. I can see where a lot of things could be fun in that scenario :). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A2: Manners make you tolerable (and even attractive) to others - which is invaluable when it comes to growing relationshi…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Again, Kathryn hits it out of the ballpark ;) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Good point! #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
RT @Kathrynclang: @AbigailRushmore And if you want others to be willing to put up with you :D #SocialCafe
Let's be honest - having manners just makes good business sense. We had a local company caught on video throwing a refund on the ground in front of a patron and her kids . . . NOT COOL! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q3 Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang Caught on video? No, that is not cool! Time to go home and not interact with clients! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A3: Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/5cYOWFd5G0
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q3 Yes. For the same reason as personal. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q3 (rephrase) How necessary are manners for business life? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A3 In the same way as personal, manners help to smooth out the bumps in business communication. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialcafechat A3: I think your business can have personality without giving up manners. And if you want to keep customers returning you need them to like you (at least a little) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@socialwebcafe Yep - just tossing the money at her feet. It was that action that had viewers the most upset #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Your story reminded me of having a rude waitress one time and how I dealt with it was to write a blog post when I got home. socialwebcafe.com/editorial/i-ca… #SocialCafe (so extreme, I c/n believe it)
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang I understand a "bad day" but I have a hard time finding excuses for that behavior as a business owner, especially if it is repetitive #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Just don't announce "this would make a great article" even just to your husband (or you get thrown out of the funeral home) :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q4 Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe
RT @Kathrynclang: @socialcafechat A3: I think your business can have personality without giving up manners. And if you want to keep custome…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe That was what most comments shared. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q4 (rephrase) Do we care about manners? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q4 I think we should understand manners. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q4: Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/ictPAZ9dhE
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Just joining us? Review the #SocialCafe chat questions @ sw.bcafe.co/ky
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A4 Without manners, there is a proven chance of conflict. Manners helps to circumvent that in some cases. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Hadn't thought about it like that. Good point about the power of manners! #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
@Kathrynclang Free to give, priceless to receive.
#SocialCafe
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
YES! Love this! Manners are so simple and yet so powerful! #socialCafe twitter.com/Geekonomicon/s…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Geekonomicon: @Kathrynclang Free to give, priceless to receive.
#SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @socialwebcafe: Online Tools for Successful Collaborations w/@SanaKnightly of @vcbuzz & @MyBlogU sw.bcafe.co/id #SocialCafe via…
— Geekonomicon(@Geekonomicon)
@Geekonomicon @Kathrynclang Love it. Your tweet had to sink in for a second and then WOW - yes! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q5 How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A5 I think one should know how to use it in today's internet world. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q5 (rephrase) Are manners and effective communication related? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q5: How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/RlBvZ7aJkA
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A5 At least with manners, there is an effort at the effective communication and others are likely to notice that effort and be more receptive. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A5: Manners are about focusing on others and helping others feel comfortable - and that will help create an atmosphere for effective communication. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: A5: Manners are about focusing on others and helping others feel comfortable - and that will help create an atmosphere fo…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe Mine shows up in the morning - but that's probably because the rest of the house is asleep :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Great point, Kathryn! "Focusing on others.. helping them feel comfortable" >> I wonder if that comes easier for certain personalities (Actually, that is what is tested with the Big 5 Psych tests :) ) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe I've become quite adept at reading autocorrect (and autocurrupt) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Q6 Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q6: Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/y551ZGLyvA
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A6 Both. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q6 (rephrase) What causes bad (or nonexistent) manners? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon You are so talented, Kathryn! ;). #SocialCafe #withAllSincerity
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A6: It can be both or either . . . the problem today is that basic manners is not taught (so many don't know even what should be done). #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A6 I think it is both. Some people do not have manners. Some do not care. Some do not pay attention to whether they do or do not. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Nast week: Manners: The Attitude that Launches Your Success 7.20 sw.bcafe.co/kz #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@socialcafechat I LOVE talking attitudes :D #SocialCafe #snarkyrainbows
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@socialwebcafe @Geekonomicon If you saw my handwriting you'd understand why I've had to develop this particular talent ;) #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang You know... My hubby and I were accidentally talking about this, in comparing behaviors.. Both of us were "deacons' kids" and "had to behave." That provided the teaching #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon You seriously crack me up, Kathryn ;) #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@Kathrynclang @socialcafechat Yes! re: talking about attitudes #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe @Geekonomicon We've made it a game around our house: "Does anyone know what mom was trying to write?" #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang @Geekonomicon Oh, that is too funny! Tho I love the way kids can make games out of things.. Mine have a few for me, too :). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q7 Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q7: Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/6GmBsx2iuL
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Maybe a better way to put Q7 is ... How can we improve our "manners skill set?" #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A7 Discussing it helps. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q7 (rephrase) What is there to know about manners? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A7: I'm from the South - there's not such thing as "too much manners." Bless your heart! :D #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Geekonomicon @socialwebcafe We wouldn't ever be able to tell if we were trying to read it . . . or maybe you could read mine and I could read yours - isn't that how twins work? #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A7 One could practice good manners and assess the results. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q1: How would you define the word, Manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/Fg4RlL05pe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q2: Do you think manners are necessary for life? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/oKEVhweg3w
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: A3: Do you think manners are necessary for business? Why or why not? #SocialCafe https://t.co/5cYOWFd5G0
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q4: Why should we care about the topic of manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/ictPAZ9dhE
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
A7: You can learn more about manners and the power of manners by reading some of the etiquette books from the past. I have "Amy Vanderbilt's Everyday Etiquette) book on my shelf #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q5: How do manners fit in the carrying out of effective communications? Or, do they fit? Why or why not? #SocialCafe http…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q6: Do you think that when manners come into question it is a lack of manners or a lack of attention to manners? #SocialC…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
RT @Kathrynclang: Q7: Who has had enough of talking about manners? ROFL. Seriously, how can we learn from a topic like manners? #SocialCafe…
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
Q8 Is there anything that you would like to consider, in improving your success rate with a few tweaks in manners? #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: A7: You can learn more about manners and the power of manners by reading some of the etiquette books from the past. I hav…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Q8: Is there anything that you would like to consider, in improving your success rate with a few tweaks in manners? #SocialCafe https://t.co/7zxUxprqm9
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
A8 Being more cognitive of it. #SocialCafe
— Abigail Rushmore(@AbigailRushmore)
Q8 (rephrase) What can we do to improve manners this week? #SocialCafe
— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)
@Kathrynclang Very helpful resource! Funny, I was thinking about etiquette books but didn't think to tweet it :). Thank you! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A8: I would like to get back in the habit of sending notes (thank you and thinking of you and nice to meet you) in the mail #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Ah, I love that.. the manners of the South... #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
A8 One suggestion is to use templates for email communications if manners are a hard thing to remember. That way, you don't have to think about it as much, but you are doing it. #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe Mine was within reach :) I'm going to have to read back through it - could make for some interesting posts down the road. #SocialCafe
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Before the internet I did that ALL the time, with a desk just for the occasion... something I miss, with the internet #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe I still have stacks of stationary (some mine, some my mom's, and some even my grandmother's) #SocialCafe It needs to go to new homes ;)
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang Oh, me too! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Yes, I miss the days of real Thank You cards ;). #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Thank u for joining us for our 30 min #SocialCafe Chat. Feel free to keep chatting, just wanted to let you know we appreciate u!
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
Collaborating and connecting with #SocialCafe #shamelessplug - Would you like to turn your course outline, class notes, presentation, or content into an eBook or book? I can help KathrynLang.com/write-your-book
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
@Kathrynclang And, she is really good at it! Visit her site and see for yourself! #SocialCafe
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
RT @Kathrynclang: Collaborating and connecting with #SocialCafe #shamelessplug - Would you like to turn your course outline, class notes, p…
— Deborah(@socialwebcafe)
@socialwebcafe It's always a great time connecting and sharing on #SocialCafe. I am so blessed to have found this Twitter Chat!
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
GREAT quote! We were just talking manners on #SocialCafe and to me this falls right into place with the idea. Think of others . . . it makes a difference in your journey as well! twitter.com/Susanjmccann/s…
— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang)
Yes! @Kathrynclang And, thanks, @Susanjmccann for tweeting the quote ("help more people"). #SocialCafe twitter.com/Kathrynclang/s…
