#SocialCafe 11.47 Chat Transcript – Part 6

@socialwebcafe Our life depends on the choices we make. "... then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served ..., or the gods of the Amorites, .... But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.” Josh 24:15 #SocialCafe

— Tom Reid(@TheTomGReid)

@DavidCrysler @russhedge Thanks...following now! #SocialCafe

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

A5) Remove all sense of self-entitlement. Develop a sense of humility and show kindness to others wherever you can. #SocialCafe https://t.co/GXHMmbuyAo

— Tom Reid(@TheTomGReid)

Ah, excellent point.And, not everyone understands that active listening part so it takes that bit of patience... and gratitude when we understand it and when they get to that point of understanding. We can always hope :)#SocialCafe https://t.co/VwdgWhsLuD

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

Q6 What tools help you when it comes to living a life of gratitude?#SocialCafe#Gratitude https://t.co/9mKthKZbt7

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

Loving all the optimism and positive thinking in this group! Woohoo! #SocialCafe

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

A4Highly recommended Deb, as a way of life & a mindest; #Gratitude doesn’t have to be saved for the “big” things in life. The habit of being grateful starts w/appreciating every good thing in life & recognizing that there is nothing too small for u to be thankful for#SocialCafe https://t.co/W3tDDp02Bt https://t.co/GAA3DuATrr

— THIAM MÉKÀ de GOGUENHEIM(@ThiamMeka2Gogue)

@socialcafechat There are so many nuggets of good even in the worst situations. To have an attitude of gratitude, those need to be the focus. Attack even negative events with curiosity to find appreciation. #SocialCafe

— Drea | (She/Her)(@DreaVilleneuve)

A6 Besides the lipstick? You know what I am going to say... Trello :)And, no, Trello doesn’t pay me to say that. I just literally use @Trello and @FileMaker to keep myself organized #SocialCafe#Gratitude

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

What websites or tools are helpful when in the arena of thankfulness?#SocialCafe#Gratitude https://t.co/zqNFreSqvm

— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

RT @DTNEtiquette: Loving all the optimism and positive thinking in this group! Woohoo! #SocialCafe

— David Crysler(@DavidCrysler)

Ah, I love it. Thank you @Laurel_M_G for the helpful reminder of our sense of normal ;)#SocialCafe https://t.co/ngMLdYTT9O

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

@DreaVilleneuve @socialcafechat Now we're talking...that requires resilience too! #SocialCafe

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

Patience, patience, patience! The top tool that I have to work on daily for increased awareness! #SocialCafe A6

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

A6. Practice and grace. Plus @NotionHQ… that’s my tool of choice to document! #SocialCafe https://t.co/oGrNv034gT

— David Crysler(@DavidCrysler)

RT @DreaVilleneuve: @socialcafechat There are so many nuggets of good even in the worst situations. To have an attitude of gratitude, those need to be the focus. Attack even negative events with curiosity to find appreciation. #SocialCafe

— David Crysler(@DavidCrysler)

That is so true! And, that makes sense, that the attitude of gratitude has to be the focus to find them.The other day, after 27 years of marriage, my hubby says, "You know I married you because you are so positive" - I didn't even realize the positive... It is life#SocialCafe https://t.co/wcCyrtFtFp

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

RT @socialwebcafe: That is so true! And, that makes sense, that the attitude of gratitude has to be the focus to find them.The other day, after 27 years of marriage, my hubby says, "You know I married you because you are so positive" - I didn't even realize the positive... It is life#SocialCafe https://t.co/wcCyrtFtFp

— ⓉⒽⒺ ⓂⒶⓇⓀ Ⓥ(@Blkjkrabbit66)

Yes, give grace to yourself and others...be patient with everyone! #SocialCafe

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

Q7 What other questions (or tips) do you have related to gratitude?#SocialCafe#Gratitude https://t.co/4mXtccqgqj

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

We are often moving so fast that we miss key moments to show our gratitude...am I right? ~ #SocialCafe A7 https://t.co/3iIjtYYXgd

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

@DTNEtiquette @socialcafechat Resilience improves when you are focused on gratitude. It takes practice. #SocialCafe

— Drea | (She/Her)(@DreaVilleneuve)

Yep - a mindset. Just like when someone gets up in the morning and their morning routine. It is a matter of putting on that mindset of #gratitude, eh?#SocialCafe https://t.co/rowO9EGx9Z

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

A7 How do you all keep yourself steady with an attitude of gratitude (but I think we are getting an idea) :) #SocialCafe#Gratitude

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

What other tips or questions are there, related to gratitude?#SocialCafe#Gratitude https://t.co/6UDHjSSfFj

— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat)

@DavidCrysler @NotionHQ Good one @DavidCrysler #SocialCafe

— Denrich(@Denrichsananda)

@DavidCrysler @trello I think I have heard of it but I don't believe I have given it a try - will have to do that.Thanks, David!#SocialCafe

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

I was in a company meeting and I said, "This is going to be terrible." A co-worker chided me and said, "You should be more positive!" So I responded with, "OK, I'm positive this is going to be terrible." I don't think that was what he intended. #SocialCafe

— Tom Reid(@TheTomGReid)

RT @ThiamMeka2Gogue: A4Highly recommended Deb, as a way of life & a mindest; #Gratitude doesn’t have to be saved for the “big” things in life. The habit of being grateful starts w/appreciating every good thing in life & recognizing that there is nothing too small for u to be thankful for#SocialCafe https://t.co/W3tDDp02Bt https://t.co/GAA3DuATrr

— Amy.M.Anderson(@snippetsbyAmy)

@TheTomGReid Giggling, Tom! Thanks! #SocialCafe

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)

A5I love teaching someone sth new each & every day: sharing what I know allows me not only to show appreciation for others, but it also is a chance for us to be grateful for my personal knowledge and skills and for the ways I am able to learn them#Gratitude #SocialCafe https://t.co/SJEBoO8C5L https://t.co/WkBgLheKrx

— THIAM MÉKÀ de GOGUENHEIM(@ThiamMeka2Gogue)

Oh, you are absolutely right, Deborah!I feel that way even tonight! I want to thank you, thank everyone, after each tweet... so many great insights.. But, life goes super fast ;)It is nice that life still affords us opportunities to express our gratitude...#SocialCafe https://t.co/uyPi85DKHZ

— Deborah, Pro Videographer, #SocialCafe Host(@socialwebcafe)

@socialwebcafe We've known each other (and many others) since 2008-2009. #SocialCafe

— Gail Gardner(@GrowMap)

Spot on, Deborah! I remind myself to slow down, but... #SocialCafe https://t.co/FBDjiK4jjE

— Deborah Thomas(@DTNEtiquette)