#SocialCafe 8.38 Chat Transcript Author: Deborah Published: [mashshare shares="false" buttons="true" align="left"]Click Here to view entire Twitter Chat Summary.Tuesday #TwitterChat List #4 #SocialRoadTrip 9pm #custserv 9pm #WiningHourChat 9pm #SocialCafe 9pm… https://t.co/J7Gput40YV— Danielle Mamagona ???(@PokeyLuWho) Welcome to the #SocialCafe Chat at our weekly Tues 6pm PDT / 9p EDT slot— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Hello #SocialCafeKathryn here - tweeting out from North AlabamaSeeking to ignite dreams and drive focus!— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Our topic for this #SocialCafe : Defining What’s Holding You Back (and Then Letting Go of It!) 8.38 #chattingNow— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Checking in from south central PA where I Create Sustained Leaders to become Global Influencers. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Tonight: Defining What’s Holding You Back (and Then Letting Go of It!) 8.38 #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) I love how you worded that @_TomGReid Not to mention, you are excellent at what you do ;)#SocialCafe https://t.co/xz9YYVxKso— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q1 If you had to name some things holding you back from success, what would be on your list? #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Hey Kathryn!And, folks - Kat gets the credit for picking tonight's topic. Thank you, Kathryn! Thanks,… https://t.co/1DoUEOFVhI— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) RT @socialwebcafe: Tonight: Defining What’s Holding You Back (and Then Letting Go of It!) 8.38 #SocialCafe— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @socialwebcafe: Q1 If you had to name some things holding you back from success, what would be on your list? #SocialCafe— Mojo(@mojosarmy) A1: The things holding me back from my success:- my determination to get it done.- my consistency in doing.- my… https://t.co/SlyLidM5Lj— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @socialwebcafe Kind of you. I appreciate it. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) This just came to me... If it is silly, feel free to let me know :)For our #GettingToKnowYou how about sharing 1-… https://t.co/3doYaINC4Q— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe I cheated :D I'm talking about it all week on #GrowingHOPE daily :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) RT @socialwebcafe: This just came to me... If it is silly, feel free to let me know :)For our #GettingToKnowYou how about sharing 1-3 top…— Mojo(@mojosarmy) A1) Whatever is holding me back has to go up in flames. My biggest obstacle is learning that what used to work for… https://t.co/lKTHDR0G02— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Ah, that's not cheating. That is Kat being creative ;)Speaking of ... Have you considered syndication?I'd love… https://t.co/Cgt358a3Po— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) 2 Tips to Help Us Build and Grow: 1) Please follow each other on Twitter; and 2) Please retweet the questions. #SocialCafe Thanks!— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Q1 (rephrase) What is holding you back from what you would label as success in life? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Q2 On your list, what portion of those are related to circumstances and what portion would be, say, people-related?… https://t.co/DLlqpTbrCv— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Start getting those #ShamelessPlug tweets ready > We will tweet them later in #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) Q2 (rephrase) What types of obstacles populate your list? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A1 Time #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A2: All issues come back to people - because we ARE people and all the choices are ours.#SocialCafe https://t.co/6ov05ogPpq— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A2) Things were going very well until external circumstances attacked me. That made the last three years very diffi… https://t.co/mW1AxpZpaz— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A2 Time is people-related because it is about me getting a better hold of it lolSometimes I slow down when I am a… https://t.co/QgUekdjIWZ— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) “Circumstances don't come to distract you from the spirit of gratitude; negative interpretations of them do.”? Edmond Mbiaka #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q3 Now, within that list, how would you define the changeability aspect? In other words, what can you change and wh… https://t.co/lNKDWGFWge— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) “Everyone is a victim of circumstances they accept.”? Steven Redhead, Life Is A Cocktail#SocialCafeYou can't let… https://t.co/AUUyUayiUD— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A3: I have to make the choice to change my intentional actions and I also have to make the choice to adjust for the… https://t.co/wfermVTJqh— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q3 (rephrase) When looking at your list, what circumstances are you able to change? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A3 I can change my use of time (get organized; say “no”) and I can also change who I hang out with and opt out of h… https://t.co/Rtyosv5Eyt— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A3) Sometimes life mirrors Maslowe's Hierarchy of needs. I have, at different times, existed at each of those level… https://t.co/2nAHmUXlUj— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Thanks @commun_it for helping us create #Twitter relationships https://t.co/mlgn0f0weL please RT #SocialCafe #ad.— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) RT @socialwebcafe: Thanks @commun_it for helping us create #Twitter relationships https://t.co/mlgn0f0weL please RT #SocialCafe #ad.— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) If you don't like your circumstance, don't accept them!Thanks, Thom#SocialCafe https://t.co/ufPdRb276O— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) This prayer is also quite useful. #SocialCafe https://t.co/aL7tpb7TsE— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q4 In the portion of your list that you view as not changeable, where are there possibilities for other adjustments… https://t.co/hMXq51x85V— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid I like this one:God, I know you can handle it, but just this once maybe I need to kick them in the rea… https://t.co/AoZJXKK6UX— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) A4) Marry an old(er) rich widow. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q4 (rephrase) What other adjustments could you make that could help your success rate? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A4 Changing how I look at the situation has an immense impact on the outcome #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A4.1) Land a whale of a client. Alternative: Land a bunch of smaller clients. Help them grow into whales. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @Kathrynclang I have used this as a morning prayer: "OK, God, I know that nothing is going to hit me today that you… https://t.co/Y9cvaiVyme— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @Kathrynclang It sounds like you have a good handle on it (on you) @Kathrynclang !Keep on keepin on as I know you… https://t.co/WtiQ43ND4l— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe Truuu #socialcafe https://t.co/bV3762Ib3t— Mojo(@mojosarmy) @_TomGReid BEST #gigglesnort of my day!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Ah, that is wisdom!I have a hard time (or use to, more so) letting go of those things that used to work but I agr… https://t.co/PwvnwvJCFB— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @mojosarmy @socialwebcafe Change your focus and you change your world.#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Very good point, @Kathrynclang !I was thinking on what you said.. Yeah, even if it is "circumstantial" like the p… https://t.co/cw1hSDNygP— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q5 Now that we have delved into different aspects of potential obstacles and how we could approach it/them, what in… https://t.co/T7ZzS0JO5e— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe Or frogs . . . cause at night its the frogs on the window that distracts me :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q5 (rephrase) What steps could you start, even this week, to move toward overcoming your obstacles to success? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A5 In my case, I would like to organize my time to accomplish little bits toward that intended success.This is ri… https://t.co/BDvXnk1Pyq— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid It is a good thing you are a highly intelligent man with a good attitude, @_TomGReid Nonetheless I am… https://t.co/UvepqTS68v— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A5: I'm going back to the little bits. Doing a little bit keeps me from getting overwhelmed and still keeps me movi… https://t.co/WLHrYQ24fT— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) The point is - we usually find what we are looking for. So always be looking for, and expect, the best. You will pr… https://t.co/McXJUcplUO— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Some would say they were the best people in the world; others would go on about how terrible the people were. It di… https://t.co/dp3dAMFvmw— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Excellent quote. So true.That is where I really appreciate the aspect of attitude toward a situation and finding… https://t.co/B7lUiDM1PE— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Old story of a man who ran a gas station on outskirts of town. He would often encounter people moving to the town &… https://t.co/8ZjYAUU0nl— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) RT @socialwebcafe: Excellent quote. So true.That is where I really appreciate the aspect of attitude toward a situation and finding the…— Kelly McKevitt(@KellyLMcKevitt) @Kathrynclang @socialwebcafe Cute little buggers. Kiss them all. No telling which one is the prince. #SocialCafe https://t.co/hPAPWXxfCk— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) Q6 What have we learned or how can we help others with this overcoming obstacles stuff? #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe I get a kick out of watching them chase the insects on the screen.#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Q6 (rephrase) What success tips do you have (or even inspired by tonight’s discussion) that you could tweet to others? #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A6: I've learned the value of the little bits and the power that comes from letting it go.And I look for every op… https://t.co/g1dcXFIKn6— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) @socialwebcafe 1 Corinthians 10:13 (CEB) No temptation has seized you that isn't common for people. But God is fait… https://t.co/P5LmoGFzK7— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A6 Look for what you can be thankful for in each situation - amazing how that helps! #gratitude #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Exactly! #SocialCafe I am thinking that the use of the phrase "intentional actions" is helpful for your readers… https://t.co/mZHvkeyAIN— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) No blame here but my Tweetdeck is doing some funky things so if you see a weird tweet, yes, it is me... probably cl… https://t.co/aGt5dWGglk— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe Again - thank you for your kind words. I hope each week to live up to being the man you perceive me to be. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) A6) Work as if everything depends on you; pray as if everything depends on God. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid @socialwebcafe If nothing else, you challenge me to be more consistent in my steps!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) I love Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and this particular rendition, graphically. I used it when I taught statistics… https://t.co/DFRdFOZJJo— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q7 Finally, it is time to brag about what you do well! Your #ShamelessPlug is .. #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Oooh... great way to look at that second one! I was going to say go with the first one but your tweet definitely p… https://t.co/bi3KAKcPJ9— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Q7 (rephrase) Time for the #ShamelessPlug! #SocialCafe— #SocialCafe Team(@socialcafechat) A7: My #ShamelessPlug for #SocialCafe#GrowingHOPE daily is in it's third week and we are talking about living a b… https://t.co/QNEKlIFTRy— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Yep! Hey @mojosarmy ;)I could say ditto quite a few times to that one - great way to look at it. #SocialCafe https://t.co/oXDaXcOrIh— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) A7 My favorite #ShamelessPlug is this #SocialCafe community (and #LinkedInChat) - family!— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang Are we like on the same wave length today (and possibly this year)?You just described yesterday and… https://t.co/LQg5M30voy— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe @mojosarmy YAY!#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Great illustration! And, I love how you delivered it in tweets.I'll make sure to keep it together in the summary… https://t.co/58TFAnlM1j— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Love it! May I borrow that? #SocialCafe https://t.co/NrDvrWFE0P— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @Kathrynclang @_TomGReid They are eating and getting their aerobic exercise, eh?... and entertaining Kat :)#SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) @socialwebcafe @_TomGReid The most important point being the later point :D#SocialCafe— Kathryn Lang(@Kathrynclang) Thank u for joining us for our #SocialCafe Chat. Just wanted to let you know we appreciate u!— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) Wow #SocialCafe community (Family!) - I have been sooooo inspired this evening.I mean, you all always inspire me!… https://t.co/51bRwy2KMh— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) I have an early flight tomorrow. I have to finish packing and get some rest. Thanks for a great chat this evening. #SocialCafe— Tom Reid(@_TomGReid) @_TomGReid Safe travels @_TomGReid #SocialCafe— Deborah(@socialwebcafe) RT @socialwebcafe: I love Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and this particular rendition, graphically. I used it when I taught statistics to u…— P€pp€rm€nt-Petty(@HleMsomi) @socialwebcafe Hi ladies! I miss chatting! It just always falls during dinner for me :/ #socialcafe— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @Kathrynclang: A5: I'm going back to the little bits. Doing a little bit keeps me from getting overwhelmed and still keeps me moving a l…— Mojo(@mojosarmy) @Kathrynclang Incremental progress is still progress I always say! #socialcafe— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @socialwebcafe: Thank u for joining us for our #SocialCafe Chat. Just wanted to let you know we appreciate u!— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @socialwebcafe: Yep! Hey @mojosarmy ;)I could say ditto quite a few times to that one - great way to look at it. #SocialCafe https:/…— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @socialwebcafe: I love Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and this particular rendition, graphically. I used it when I taught statistics to u…— Mojo(@mojosarmy) @socialwebcafe @TweetDeck I love Tweedeck but I hate that they took away the new composer that allowed GIFs and Emojis, wth. #SocialCafe— Mojo(@mojosarmy) RT @_sconfinati_: #Serbia Buon compleanno al #socialcafè progetto inserito all'interno del campo #profughi di Bogova?a.#RefugeesWelcome @c…— mariabeatricebelluco(@mbbelluco) RT @socialwebcafe: Yep! Hey @mojosarmy ;)I could say ditto quite a few times to that one - great way to look at it. #SocialCafe https:/…— Classic Music Machine(@MachineClassic) Link to Complete Summary.
